An interview with Maggie Young




Maggie Young has a new book coming out March 1st on Amazon, titled Just Another Number, and it speaks of real life situations dealing with the Military, drugs, and being a southern feminist in a world of men. The book is fascinating and unlike other tell-all books, as Young has her own special way of writing and drawing one in with horror, wit and compassion. She tells it like it is.

Maggie,
Who are your influences? 
I’m influenced by several people in various ways. My all time favorite novel is Gone with the Wind. I’ve read it countless times.  Margaret Mitchell definitely inspired my writing style in the way she describes people, her southern dialogue, and the way she pairs character’s personalities with the personalities of cities and cultures. My comedic influence comes from Tucker Max and Cheslea Hander. They- in a nutshell, taught me how to write about gross things. Although the misogynistic “fratire” is in may ways a direct contradiction of everything I stand for, Max’s work ethic, persistence, belief in his material, and marketing tactics are what keeps me determined to follow my path. Max was the very first of his kind in literature. Agents, publishers, “professionals” in the industry didn’t give him the time of day. He just didn’t care about rules.  He wrote what he thought was good, valued his own instincts, and relentlessly kept putting himself out there. Jane Fonda is also one of my heroes because I relate to her on such a deep level. I know so many veterans who blindly loathe her for lies told about her from her trip to Hanoi in Vietnam and her peace activism. There’s something about a woman who is intelligent, articulate, bold, and sexually appealing that ignites fear and wrath from the opposite sex- especially in a culture like the military where men are under so much pressure to clutch onto their masculinity. She’s dealt with four decades of picketing, threats, and insults with such grace. In a way, she’s helped me prepare for the backlash that I see coming from Just Another Number. Mae West was also an icon. She was truly the original gay rights, human rights, sex-positive feminist. That woman was far ahead of her time. 

When did you begin writing? 
When I got out of the Navy, I took an Introduction to Journalism class at Mesa Community College in San Diego. I had this amazing professor, Kevin Cox, who my book is dedicated to. My final paper was a magazine article about how, at 19 years old, I entered a financially driven, platonic Navy marriage.  He loved its controversial nature and encouraged me to submit it to the San Diego Weekly Reader. They made it their cover story, Confessions of a Phony Navy Wife. He encouraged me to write a second article, which was published. Then, he suggested I write a book. 

How do you come up with your stories, characters, character names, POV, etc?
So far, I have been strictly a memoir writer. I consider my writing, “investigative reporting with emotional authenticity.” Everything I write is as accurate as my memory can translate. My life happens to have a lot of crazy stories. I live in this constant “what came first, the chicken or the egg?” dilemma. I don’t know if I happen to make great stories from my outlandish situations or if I get myself into outlandish situations to make great stories.
In Just Another Number, the men are numbered in the order I was with them. The man who took my virginity is “Number 1.” Rather than his name, he is referred to as his Number. Each chapter is a “Number” and the entire chapter revolves around that number. This is because the entire point of the book is how after thousands of years of patriarchy, women are curbed to revolve their lives around male approval. I have a personal rule to cover all identities besides my own. I choose each name by how I feel it suits my character’s personality. It’s just like naming a baby or a pet. 

Do you work from an outline? 
No. Sometimes I will make a list of points I want to make or topics I want to cover in certain areas, but I don’t believe in mapping out my work. I want it to develop and manifest as I write it. I had no idea what Just Another Number was about when I first started writing it. I feel like the best art happens when you let yourself bleed from the gut, belt out your emotions, and figure out what it’s all about later. 

Tell me about your favorite scene in your novel (s). 
Number 11 covers a lot of heavy stuff, including my military deployment. I met Number 11 himself after deployment. But before him, I found myself fooling around with a married man from my ship. There’s a scene when the two of us ended up intoxicated together in Thailand and he ends up leaving me for a Thai prostitute. I love that era in my book because it really highlights the tragedy in the sex trade and the way sailors dehumanize them. A controversial topic I cover is the way the military trains young Americans to be killers and immerses them in a high school bully culture. In learning to dehumanize their enemy, they collaterally do the same to loved ones and others the encounter. Becoming numb to their emotions is their defense mechanism. That combined with months of being sexually suppressed on a ship for months and then pulling into a port with abundant, cheap purchasable sex is a dangerous formula that the military turns a blind eye to. 

I have a few basic rules for writing.
1. Write what you want to write.
2. Write how you want to write it.
3. Write something you want to read.
4. Don’t follow rules.
5. Every reader’s feedback matters.
6. But don’t ever take advice from another writer unless you love their work.

I’ve had critics, specifically academics, criticize me for making certain statements about society, politics, generations, or cultures. They claim that I haven’t earned the right to make those statements. But it’s my book. I can write what I want to write. Nobody is obligated to like it. 

Have you ever tried writing in other genres? 
No. But I do have an interest in screenwriting. Orange is the New Black turned me onto it. That show is brilliantly written. I’ve considered experimenting with standup comedy, which is a literary art all on it’s own. George Carlin mirrors my views on almost everything. Robin Williams was a genius. Aziz Ansari reads my mind. I get compared to Amy Schumer a lot. 

Do you have any interesting writing-related anecdotes? 
I’ve been marketing my book on free dating sites like Tinder and OkCupid. It’s actually been working out quite well. But now my most common pickup line is, “Can I be in your next book? I want to be a Number.” 

Do you listen to music as you write? 
No. I’ll get too distracted. But I write in coffee shops. I feel too isolated writing at home. I love a little bit of background noise, caffeine, and the way I have the option to socially interact or be left alone. 


Thank you Maggie for taking the time with Buttonholed Book Reviews




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Maggie is currently writing a second memoir, My Dilemma. It’s about how economies cause generation gaps. It profiles my family fallout, the south, and the recession. My family will be playing an even bigger role in My Dilemma than Just Another Number.


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